We have this beautiful Constitution, designed to help us
“form a more perfect union,” with limited specific roles. Included are the Bill
of Rights, and the first right mentioned is freedom of religion.
To be specific, the first amendment refers to government at
the national level, and does two things:
·
Prevents the federal government from
establishing a religion.
·
Prevents the federal government from prohibiting
the free exercise of religion.
In subsequent years, states (some of which started with
state religions) have followed suit, and now there is an assumption that a
state cannot infringe on this natural, God-given right. While technically the US Constitution doesn't settle state law, the Bill of Rights is there to remind us that these are God-given rights, not government-granted rights.
And yet, governments—both state and federal, plus sometimes
local—have interfered with the free exercise of religion.
We’ve recounted these before. Among the disagreements
between many religious people and governments are issues of sex, gender,
marriage definition, life, and abortion.
We know what is necessary for civilization to flourish: a
righteous people who honor God, life, family, truth, and property. The
disagreements put government against the side of civilization. That means that
the moral compass of these governments—which actually means the moral compass
of those holding positions of power in governments, because governments don’t
have feelings or morals in and of themselves—their moral compass is wrong.
But they don’t know it. They very smugly go forward,
assuming their rightness, and their righteousness, as they trample the rights
of those who believe differently.
It will never be true that gender is just a social construct
subject to the choices an individual feels inclined to make. When we get past
the current confusion, we will look back at this as sheer foolishness.
It will never be true that a relationship between two people
of the same sex is equivalently valuable (in the general sense, to
society—not each individual relationship) to permanently committed man and wife
who procreate and raise their own children to adulthood. When we look
back, we will see which is more likely to both produce children and provide
children the best outcomes.
Eventually it will become clear that unborn human life is
still human life and not some clump of cells, like a tumor, interfering with a woman’s life
plans. And elderly life, or life with disability, is still valuable and worth
protecting. Killing some humans one deems as less valuable or less fully human
is an evil we call murder.
Forcing people to go against their conscience, just because
government disagrees with their conscience, is tyranny.
And tyranny is always bad. So it is important to everyone in
a free society that we stop government—and anyone with power over others—from
infringing on religious freedom rights.
Figuring out how to stand up and protect these rights is a
challenge we have to face. On January 21, Elder Dallin H. Oaks, Apostle in The Church of
Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, and former Utah State Supreme Court Justice (and
President of Brigham Young University while I was there), spoke at a religious freedom conference in Arizona. This was mainly to Latter-day Saints, but the
principles work for everyone who wants to stand for religious freedom. He said,
Elder Dallin H. Oaks photo from Deseret News |
Whatever our differences, most of us want to live together in
happiness and harmony, with goodwill toward all…. We want effective ways to
resolve differences without anger or contention and with mutual understanding
and accommodation. We all lose in an atmosphere of hostility or contention. We
should encourage all to refrain from the common practice of labeling
adversaries with such epithets as “godless” or “bigot.” We all lose when
debates on ideas and policies turn into personal attacks, boycotts, firings and
other intimidation of adversaries.
He used a metaphor of a two-sided coin:
Love of others and tolerance for their opinions and behavior
is only one side of a two-sided coin. The other side is always what is true or
right. One of these sides cannot govern without consciousness of the other.
Those who question why the Church does something they consider contrary to love
overlook the companion requirement of truth.
So the question follows, how do we do it? How do we stand
for truth while being accused of hating, even when we’re not hating?
The LDS Church has a new website to help: religiousfreedom.lds.org. Again, this is designed for
Latter-day Saints, but is useful to anyone trying to stand for truth. Among the
helpful features are several lists. One is "10 Ways to Protect Religious Freedom":
1. Study
up on the issues.
2. Speak
up with courage and civility.
3. Get
involved in the political process.
4. Get
to know people of other faiths.
5. Volunteer
for a charity—help solve problems in the community.
6. Get
involved in education.
7. Be
part of a club, business group, or professional association.
8. Extend
the reach of your faith—cooperate with other faiths.
9. Make
it a family matter and a matter of prayer.
10. Enlarge
your voice through social media.
I’m feeling fairly good that, in my small circle, I’m doing
these things. It’s how I live my life now.
Some of those suggestions might benefit from this additional list, "7 Keys to Successful Conversations":
1. First
seek to understand, not judge.
2. Remember
that the people you’re talking with are children of God—give them respect and
love.
3. Express
your beliefs calmly and sincerely, from your personal perspective.
4. Stay
true to your beliefs.
5. Rely
on the Holy Ghost—trust that God will inspire you with what to say.
6. Be
kind, listen, and love—this, even when others are not kind toward you.
7. Know
when to end the conversation—when others are unwilling to offer respect, and
listening, it is unproductive to continue.
There are additional articles, links to documents, videos,
and various resources. For example, if you’re dealing with religion and
schools, there’s “7 Religious Things You Can Still Do,” along with a video example, and
links to additional guides in PDF form: “What US Parents Should Know” and “What US Teachers Should Know.”
This website is the best resource I’ve found on
defending religious freedom since Ryan T. Anderson’s book Truth Overruled: The Future of Marriage and Religious Freedom came out in 2015,
shortly after the errant Supreme Court ruling redefining marriage. In that book he suggests being clear that the ruling has nothing
to do with the Constitution. And he believes in bringing in new, recent research,
so that science is on our side. He also believes in being kind, and listening—even
when only intolerance is returned.
We shouldn’t give in to the defensive position of proving we’re
not bigoted while we are being assaulted by religious intolerance. We just need to
be the reasonable ones in the conversation, and trust that truth will persuade
among reasonable people.