Samwise Gangee, Rosie, and family from LOTR wiki |
As C. S. Lewis puts this concept, “The homemaker has the ultimate
career. All other careers exist for one purpose only—and that is to support the
ultimate career.” Being a mom, or being a dad, is life altering, and what it’s
all about. Civilization in microcosm is a mom and dad with their new baby—forever
after a family.
So, regardless of what’s going on in the world right now, I’m
spending time in The Shire, being Grandma. Daughter, Social Sphere, had her
first baby this week, and I flew from Texas to the intermountain west (packing
all my warmest clothes) to do the most important thing there is to do right
now: hold a baby.
I don’t know yet if this will interrupt the writing
schedule. I might keep mostly to a schedule—although my reading and research
time is somewhat diverted. I will also be doing a fair amount of cooking and
dishes, and laundry—the day-to-day things that Sam could take pleasure in after
escaping the fires of Mordor. I haven’t exactly been in Mordor; I try to live
in civilization. But I’m active in the constant vigilance freedom, prosperity,
and civilization require. So maybe this is something like the 20 years between
Bilbo Baggins’s birthday party and Frodo’s beginning the Fellowship of the
Ring. Or maybe I just get to be part of the Shire forever, and that would be OK
for this grandma.
Civilization is built on love. A new baby, who is your own
posterity, fills you with love like almost no other experience in life.
Parenting, done with love, civilizes the parents as they seek all good things
in life for their child. What a blessing!
So, sharing a photo of love come down from heaven.
Going with the LOTR comparison, I’ll just mention I’m
sharing a room with a dragon, but so far no fire breathing. I guess in The
Shire even dragons are relatively civilized.
I really love this post! And totally agree with your insights. There is nothing like having/holding a new baby.
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