Some weeks ago we had a princess party for our granddaughter
(Political Sphere’s child, so we'll call her Little PS 1). She made a
beautiful princess. Her little girl friends came dressed as princesses too. The
boys came dressed as knights. (One came as a cowboy—I think he was Woody from Toy Story, which is tangentially related
to Disney princesses.) Except for the 100-degree glaring sunshine, the whole
day was a delight.
I was a princess for Halloween at that same age. I remember
feeling so beautiful and special. I love the idea of feeling like a princess—special,
treasured. I want that for every little girl, and an equivalent sense of value
for every little boy. But feeling special and treasured does not need to mean
feeling more important than others.
Princess PS1 and Princess Spherical Model (me) |
The main problem with wanting to be a princess is, you dream
of ending up in a stratified class system—which, by definition, is below the
equator of the Spherical Model.
There are movies that gloss over the point. The Princess Diaries movies take an
awkward, unnoticed teenager growing up in San Francisco and turn her into a
princess of a small European principality. She sees the opportunity of
political position to do good for people; that’s not a bad thing. But getting
that opportunity for power simply because of her bio-Dad’s genealogy seems a
less that certain method for society to choose its leaders.
There’s another one, The
Prince and Me, from 2004, in which a farm girl gone to college meets a
Danish prince who is slumming it incognito as a foreign exchange student. They
fall in love, and she moves to his European monarchy to transform into a
princess.
I understand the idea of true love in a story. But the loss
of “all men are created equal” is not as inconsequential as the fairytales make
it seem.
So I’ve been wondering if we can identify, in ourselves, a
class system craving that we ought to resist.
Here are some examples:
· Belief that heritage isn’t just valuable to you
personally, but makes you superior to those with lesser family lines: ex.:
descended from the Mayflower, descended from the founding fathers, descended
from the Mormon pioneers, descended from Texas original 300.
· Belief that physical looks make you superior to
those with less natural attractiveness.
· Belief that money makes you superior to those
with less—and even worse, belief that older, inherited money makes you superior
to those who have more recently earned wealth.
· Belief that educational accomplishments are not
only valuable to you personally, and to society as you share what you know, but
that your degrees and credentials make you superior to people without as
impressive a collection of honors.
· Belief that celebrity makes you superior to the
unknown masses.
· Belief that positions of civic responsibility or
political power, elected or appointed, make you superior to regular citizens.
· Belief that rank within an organization, such as
in a corporation, church, or even a volunteer organization, makes you superior
to those in lower ranks.
· Belief that misfortune and suffering make you superior
to those who have suffered less, and therefore you feel entitled to the results
of other people’s work.
The common phrase is “belief that you are superior.” You can
be a better runner than your competitors without being a superior human being
in other areas of your life. You can be a successful entrepreneur without being
a superior human being in other areas of your life. It’s not a bad thing to
strive for a goal, attempt to reach it, and pass other participants along the
way. That is how we get improvement, innovation, and varieties of progress in
particular areas.
But there’s a difference between doing superior things and
being superior people. The things we do may reveal our character, and they
might identify ways we can benefit society—but they do not define the worth of
our souls. Blind justice means that every citizen, in every walk of life, has
equal standing before the law, by virtue of being a human being.
I have a dream—that instead of looking at ephemeral,
outward, arbitrary measures, we find better ways to identify and honor good
character. Let’s stop stratifying ourselves according to outward standards and strive
to be true-hearted and virtuous.
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